Values and Life Goals

How do we prioritize our goals if it feels like we're both running in different directions?

If we could make a big impact on the world together, what would it be?

How would you want to handle it if one of us got a killer opportunity that needed a big sacrifice from the other?

Do you feel like we have enough lazy days together, or are we always on the go?

Are there any spiritual rituals or habits you want us to build into our lives?

How do you think our relationship can support your career journey?

What's something you're super ambitious about that might surprise me?

How do you feel about splurging on things vs. saving for the future?

What's one thing you think we should each change or work on to grow as a couple?

Ever feel like you're putting way more energy into work than our relationship? How do you balance that?

When you imagine us in 10 years, what does our everyday life look like?

What's one thing you want to be remembered for when we're old and grey?

What’s something you hope our careers will let us do more of in the future?

If money was no object, what would be the first thing you’d buy or do?

How do you see our financial future shaping up, and what's your biggest worry about it?

If we had to choose between a stable life or chasing a crazy big dream, where would you lean?

Do you see our spiritual views influencing how we raise kids or imagine our future family?

Do you see us hosting more get-togethers with family or friends as we go on?

Is there a part of our relationship you'd like to evolve or improve over time?

What’s something you wished we prioritized more as a couple?

How do you feel about where we're at in life right now, and where do you see us in 5 years?

When you dream about our future, what does success look like for us as a team?

When you think about our future, what’s the one thing you really want us to have?

How do you feel about spending on things like travel versus saving for a home or something big?

What's one thing you hope we never compromise on as we plan our life together?

What's something you'd risk it all for in your career, and do you think that's worth it?

How do your parents' financial decisions influence your ambitions and goals?

Is there a hobby or experience you've been dying to try out with me?

When you're super stressed about work, how do you want me to support you?

What do you think our biggest splurge has been this year, and do you regret it at all?

What's one thing you think is worth spending extra on, no matter what?

Do you feel like our spiritual beliefs are in sync?

How do you feel about the idea of one of us taking a break from work for a while?

What’s one thing you wish we spent more time doing together?

How do you think our priorities line up when it comes to building the life we want?

What's one thing about our future that you're most excited to experience with me?

What's one big dream you haven't told me about yet that you'd want us to chase together?

What's something you personally want to achieve in the next year, and how can I support you with that?

What’s one career fuck-up that still haunts you, and how did you deal with it?

Is there anything you buy regularly that you secretly hope I never find out how much it costs?

When it comes to friends, do you think we’re spending enough time with them, or should we make more effort?

Do you ever worry about our future, and if so, what keeps you up at night?

What's one financial goal you dream about, that you never told me?

How do you really feel about our spending habits—are we living it up too much or playing it too safe?

How often do you think we should be talking about our budget, and do you think we're doing it enough?

Is there anything that I spend money on that you'd like me to cut back on?

If we could pick one crazy ambition to tackle together, what would it be?

Do you feel excited or stressed when we talk about saving for the future? Why?

Do you think we approach money in the same way, or are we on different pages?

How do you think your upbringing shaped your views on money and spending?

When you’re feeling stuck at work, what’s the best way I can have your back?

If money was no issue, what would be the first thing you’d want us to do together?

If we ended up living somewhere new, where would you imagine us being the happiest?

How do you feel about saving up for a once-in-a-lifetime trip versus investing in something more practical?

Do you ever feel like your job takes too much time away from us?

Is there anything on your bucket list you’d feel bummed about if it never happened?

If money wasn’t a thing, how would you spend your days?

What's one money lesson from your family that you want to pass on or totally avoid?

What would it take for you to feel financially comfortable with our future plans?

If we hit the jackpot, would you stay dedicated to your career, or would you peace out for something else?

Do you think our life goals line up with the kind of legacy we want to leave? Why or why not?

Do you ever think one of us is pushing harder at work than the other, and does that bug you?

What’s one thing you never want to cut from our budget, no matter what?